Why Do We Build Houses for People?

The issues are many.

September 16, 2018

With all the controversy over every new housing project, why do we continue allowing developers to build houses and apartments for people?

One of the most discussed subjects circulating in our County today is the opposition to new housing.  Most people acknowledge the rising rental prices and the peaking housing prices. Rents are being increased because some people can pay more. Others are being forced out of their long-time rentals because they cannot.

Everyone acknowledges the need for shelter for the homeless population but there is extreme resistance to locating such a shelter near anyone.

The peaking market prices are caused by high demand. Statistics show we are now within $30,000 of the peak in 2005. It took 13 years to get here and who doesn’t remember that crash? Whenever demand exceeds supply prices go up. That just how it works. Remember how much people paid for a Cabbage Patch doll when supplies were limited?

Even with the acknowledgement of shortages, people object to housing developments for poor people exclaiming “enough of low income housing”. When a builder tries to build for upper low and lower middle-income people such as teachers, first responders and the like, people cry “too much traffic”, “too much noise”, “dust on my bushes” and “too many people”.

Some think builders sneak into towns and start building houses at will. In reality, the highest of public governance administers and oversees the process. When planners and builders realize communities are “built out” and congestion can’t be mitigated, they move to outlying areas. The cry then is the project is not in compliance with orderly development, its “leap frog” and it degrades the natural environment. Builders and developers are vilified when they are often required by state and local mandates to provide certain amenities not popular with some neighbors such as sidewalks and street lighting absent from adjacent neighborhoods.

Inclusionary zoning requires builders to provide a certain number of low income or affordable units within a project but in some projects have been allowed to buy their way out with set asides and alternate project financing. Mixing up a neighborhood with variations of affordability is American.

Seniors resist moving to be near grandchildren for two reasons: they cannot take their current property tax with them and they cannot buy a less expensive home. Therefore, in a response by California Realtors to the housing shortage, there is a measure on the November 2018 ballot which will allow seniors to buy a less expensive home and take their current taxes with them anywhere in the State. That will create a new supply of homes for first time or move up buyers without turning any dirt. “Yes on 5” eliminates the moving penalty!

I once heard a neighbor say how exciting it will be to meet the new neighbors coming to a small new development near her home. When it appeared the project was moving forward, she recanted. Why have we lost that enthusiasm?

In summary, it’s simple. New homes are built because people need a place to live.

Kay Wilson-Bolton is an associate broker with Century 21 Troop and has served Ventura County since 1976. She can be reached at 805.340.5025.  http://www.realestatemagic.com


They are already here! – Street Beat Week 501 on September 5, 2018



Said a stakeholder quoted in the Santa Clarita Community Plan to

Address Homelessness, July 2018.  

“There is a misperception that people come to Santa Clarita to be homeless — and this is part of the resistance to the year round shelter. People think that if you build it they will come. But the reality is that a large percentage of these people were already here.” This is an amazing document prepared by the City of Santa Clarita and Homeless Issues.


TRACKING AND REFERRING homeless people throughout the County to other service providers is a task for the fit only. SPIRIT has just been approved to utilize this County system to aid in finding housing our homeless population. It’s not a program for the faint and training is intense, but the services and outcomes are unequalled.

With this innovative system, users enhance care coordination and eliminate program and project silos by maintaining a single client record across organizations and seamlessly sharing data in real time. Services recipients must agree to share their information in the system and sign a release. Santa Paula has five of our homeless people placed in permanent supportive housing.  That is 7% of our total population. Two have accepted housing in other communities   Not all of them want to do that which is another challenge.


Safe Sleep in Coming to Santa Paula. We are working with a local property owner, the City and the Police Department to provide a safe place for people to sleep in their cars. We estimate there are 10 people/families who are doing so and we want a safe place, providing security and portable bathroom facilities. We are reviewing the best practices of other cities. We will be working with the School District to determine how many additional families are in cars.


  1. “Hello miss Kay this is Maria. My family and I were in a situation that were gone be homeless and my daughter is pregnant and due by the 14th. She’s living in a friend’s truck. can u please help use somewhere we can go thank u so much blessings.”
  2. Couple living in Steckel Park – baby due in 10 days.
  3. Single father of four kids living at Steckel Park. He’s still working but the water pump went out on the car. Cost is $221.
  4. URGENT.  We are told there are 14 seniors living at the Santa Paulan Senior complex in Santa Paula who have been cited by management for unregistered cars in their designated parking spots. Some of them are not being driven. One reported today if she pays for the tags, she can’t pay for the rent. A project to work on.
  5. A Santa Paula woman living in Bakersfield wants to move back home. I had to tell her there is no shelter here and to seek help where she is. Her mother is here but she is a housing voucher recipient and no one can live with her.
  6. Thank you to the Lions Club for getting glasses so quickly for one of our men. He’s a different guy today.

Note: Thanks to the sweet person that dropped off $20 at the office.

It went for the co-pay for Fernando’s medication.

If you want to share in any meeting any of these needs you can donate at our website:  

SPIRIT of Santa Paula

You can also do so anonymously by contacting the director.


A few bucks here and there.  A sign of the times. This nice man was working hard to keep the environment clean and found himself with more than the law of physics will allow. For many this daily task provides much needed cash for the basics in life.


A stash of Nike’s showed up at the office today from Miss Naomi. Todd is a great helper here and got first pick! Thanks to Lion’s Club for his new glasses. He’s looking for a job if someone needs someone. This is how their stuff gets stolen and this is what irritates the eyes. Homeless people have to carry everything they own. If they set it down,

consider it gone.


This is a tell-tale sign of a homeless person nearby. This is also how they lose all their stuff.


MANY MEALS MENU: Chicken Puff Pasta with Cheese and Breadcrumb Topping, cooked carrots from Garman’s Pub, orange slices, cole slaw with pineapple, rolls and butter. Dessert is donuts from Angel’s Donuts, pastries and cookies of epic portions.

Thank You Food Share!  DRIVERS FOUND. THANK YOU to Tom Wilson, John Lopez, Bob Carson, Erendira McCormick, Hank Wychoff,  Luis Cantero and Bessie Crowell.  PS – We will have a refrigerated truck soon  for additional food rescue operations.

The Goal is to End Homelessness in Santa Paula

SPIRIT OF SANTA PAULA is a 501-C3 Non-Profit Corp. a “Publicly Supported Charity”

EIN – 27-0005506


.Mailing Address: PO Box 728, Santa Paula CA 93061-0728

Emergency Food Boxes by Appt.  Call 805.340.5025 or email kay@spiritsp.org

SPIRIT’S FOOD PANTRIES  in Santa Paula plus USDA Commodities

Saturday from 2:30 – 3:30 at 113 N. Mill Street

Wednesday from 5 to 6 pm at 121 Davis Street and Take-Out Dinner too!

First Saturday of the Month from 8 – 9 am  St. Paul’s / Emmanuel Lutheran Church located 117 N. 7th Street

Santa Paula Richard’s Drop In Center 113 N. Mill St, Santa Paula  Open 9 am to 3 pm – Weekdays


Weekly Many Meals 121 Davis St, Santa Paula Served every Wed. 5 to 6 pm.  Dining and Take-Out and Food Pantry

 Weekly One Stop 1029 E. Santa Paula St., Santa Paula

Every Friday from 9 to Noon – for Showers, Breakfast, Lunch, Health Care and Services in Partnership with the Ventura Co. Healthcare Agency Courtesy of El Buen Pastor United Methodist Church

Failure, Success. Hopeless, Hope. Wounded, Healed. Week 499 on August 22, 2018

Editor’s Note: This weekly communication is intended to inform, encourage and educate friends and neighbors on the issues of homelessness, what is being done, what can be done and what remains to be done.

Branch Manager, Don Tello. Special thanks to Bank of the Sierra for their generous donation to the weekly Many Meals program at the First Presbyterian Church. Each week, homeless and hungry families receive a generous and nutritious meal along with fresh food from our well-stocked pantry.

This Week’s Features:

Mental Illness and Homelessness. Not Every Homeless Person Is Mentally Ill. However, many of them are. One particular man in Santa Paula has been arrested again for assault with a deadly weapon and trespassing. He is waiting release. A plea has been made to the Behavioral Health Department on behalf of Chief McLean who fears the worst will happen one day for either an innocent bystander or for the homeless man. This man spent 30 days in January in a facility and voluntarily stayed even though he missed his mother’s funeral. Because he went back to the streets due to lack of shelter, he found his old ways. There has to be a better way. Photo is from Google Images.

Shower Program Update – One Stop Santa Paula.

It’s all amazing and it is so appreciated by those who attend. It’s making a difference and it’s bringing all those who participate into the circle of care needed to get them off the streets. The fear is that the longer they are “out there”, the harder it is to get them “in here” because that life becomes normal. Every Friday 9 am to noon, El Buen Pastor United Methodist Church, 1029 E. Santa Paula Street, Santa Paula. Visitors welcome. Thank you to the Whole Person Care Team of the Ventura County Health Care Agency.


“Thank you for your help last week. I tried texting you earlier but it kept getting deleted. I am very stressed tonight because I’m flat broke and out of calfresh money and my cash aid. I got my storage emptied and it’s all in the back of my car. I got info about the car and what to do to get it fixed. My girlfriend said she would cover the tow to the garage. I don’t receive my cash aid until the 3rd and calfresh on 10th. The truck needs 3 quarts of oil. I don’t know when when I’ll hear from my boy’s dad or see him again, because he doesn’t communicate like a normal person. But I’m sitting in a parking lot wondering what to do next. I’d like to get my son a happy meal so he’s covered and happy. For me, I would just like some peace of mind. I’m hungry too for something other than a peanut butter sandwich or chix noodle soup. I’m sad. I can’t cook anything in rv and there’s no gas in it. No propane either. I also have a lot of laundry to be done. Our underwear all needs washing. What a list, eh? I will file, answer phones, volunteer, you name it, while my boy is in school. I need help, I have an online Avon store so maybe you would pass the world or refer me to someone who still buys that stuff. I need help.”


An invitation is being extended to the public to attend on Thursday, September 6, 2018 from 5:30 – 8:30 pm at the Poinsettia Pavilion, 3451 Foothill Road, Ventura. Speakers will discuss the issues that relate to homelessness including, “An Overview of Homelessness in the City.” There will be representatives on the topics of Law Enforcement, Mental and Physical Health, Housing and Shelter, Substance Abuse and Addiction, Employment and Income. It is sponsored by the Faith Subcommittee of the Ventura Social Services Task Force. RSVP: partnersforchangeventura@gmail.com


1. Funds to complete the cremation and burial of Daniel Price.
2. Mother of six needs $75 to get birth certificates for three to keep them in daycare.
3. Mother of three needs $200 for school clothes and shoes.
4. Mother of six needs money for gas to get to her school and money for kids school clothes.
5. Woman from Santa Paula needs $75 to get her car out of impound in Mexico ($5 per day) so she can drive to work in Chula Vista. Cost $11 to send her $75.
6. Single mother of four living in a motel can cook outside with charcoal needs food.
7. Single mother of three living in a motel needs “one more night”. Every agency in town has helped her. A concerned registered with the appropriate government agency said “there was no offense, so no inspection.”
8. Family needs help with funeral expenses for adult son who just died. $1900 raised in five days; $500 from a car wash.
9. Single mom needs $300 to give to her landlord so she can move in early. Verified.
10. Single female living in a camper needs a battery and gasoline…and registration tags so she doesn’t go homeless.
11. Homeless woman asked for $10 so she can have a meal at Denny’s.
12. Homeless man is living in a shed and taking care of the owner’s dog. He lost the dog today, a young German Shepherd. He wants $250 so he can buy the owner another dog.
13. Not today, I said.

If you want to share in any meeting any of these requests, you can donate at our website: SPIRIT of Santa Paula  http://spiritofsantapaula.org


This documentary filmed by Green Island Films, is a journey through the worst homeless crisis in America. Filmed in Honolulu, the film gives an up-close look at homeless people. It features two families as they move from sidewalk tents to subsidized housing. You will see and hear the personal stories of substance abusers, the physically ill, the mentally ill, the aged, veterans, teenagers, the working poor, ex-convicts, immigrants and indigenous people. Political leaders, medical and social workers give their input. Open discussion follows.

Tuesday, August 28 at 6:30 PM and it is a free event; donations welcome.

Sponsored by the Social Concerns Action Committee of the Universalist Unitarian Church of Santa Paula, located at 740 E. Main St, Santa Paula

THIS WEEK’S MENU:  Spaghetti Casserole with chicken, green peppers, onions and celery, cheese and salsa dressing, cooked carrots from Garman’s Pub, cole slaw with pineapple, rolls and butter. Dessert is donuts from Angel’s Donuts, pastries and cookies of epic portions. Thank you Food Share of Ventura County.


If anyone has an interest in driving our truck to and from various food locations, please let me know. 805.340.5025. If you are able to lift and load, that’s great but not necessary. Times needed: Friday and Saturday mornings, Friday from 10:30 to Noon for Food Share Shopping. Helpers go with you.


News from the Streets of Santa Paula – Week 493 for Many Meals on July 11, 2018 – “Am I Mentally Ill?”


This Week’s Many Meals Menu: Southwestern Pasta, Cooked Carrots from Garmans Pub, Cole Slaw with Craisins, Chips and Orange Slices. Anyone is welcome

June Food Pantry: 6,000 lbs; June USDA: 6,000 lbs; June Food Rescue: 9,120 lbs

Word of Wisdom – The only thing more exhausting than having a mental illness is pretending you don’t.”

It was a setback this week for a homeless senior to see the documentation provided by her doctor supporting her eligibility for permanent supportive housing. He has to certify her physical disability and added her mental challenges as well.

The last thing anyone wants to hear is that they are mentally ill, especially when they believe they are not. She wanted to cry and asked me if I thought it was true. The only way I could honestly answer her question was to admit that, in some way, all of us suffer from some mental instability.

When you think about it, we all have some fear of man, nurse grudges, look for the bad instead of the good all around us, and we are apt to criticize more than praise. I’m working on my own illnesses all the time.

The 2020 Census Is Here

Sacramento State Downtown

School of Public Affairs is Hosting a Convening Session for the Upcoming Census: There is a special area of the census for those who are hard to count.

There is a convening meeting tomorrow at the Ventura County Community Foundation starting at 12:30.

I’ve been asked to be on the panel and my question is: “Tell us a story of a time when you encountered a barrier while engaging a hard to count (HTC) Community. What strategy did you use to achieve success?”

They want a 3-minute answer to that one. Ha.


The cities of Ventura and Oxnard account for over 65% of Ventura County’s homeless population. 1,299 persons were surveyed in the annual homeless count, an increase of over 12% in the total county population. Most concerning was the finding of a 23% increase in the number of unsheltered persons. Both cities have limited year-round emergency shelter programs. The City of Ventura has 22 beds for single adults. The City of Oxnard has 35 beds for men and 61 beds for women and children.

Ventura County is looking for an experienced operator.

My name is Elizabeth. Can you help us?

That’s how the call begins. This is a typical picture of a woman who called me this week. She is staying at a local hotel and out of money. She was paying rent to a person who failed to make the rent payment to the landlord.

She has diabetes and needs regular dialysis treatments. She has no transportation, food stamp money has been used and she needs help.

Where to start? It begins with calling Homeless Services at 805.385.1800. Calling 211 will also provide various services. SPIRIT of Santa Paula has a little money if they have a place to rent as do some of the local churches. We can help with food, of course, and bus passes.

It always go back to shelter — emergency, temporary, supportive, transitional — all kinds. The needs of impoverished families are great. The burden is great when options are few.

When the Dog Bites.

A sad day for a person who has a dog and is homeless is when the dog has bitten someone for the third time. Some dogs do better than others on the street. This one doesn’t do well.

This past week, the dog lunged at one of our Drop In Center guests and levied a severe bite, drawing a fair amount of blood and requiring stitches. We had to file a police report because the owner has been warned numerous time about this dog’s potential behavior. Animal Control Officer Donovan quarantined the dog. It remains to be seen what is next.

This last week’s heat was brutal for street people. They want to be under shade and where it is cool — just like we do. There are few places for them.

There are numerous dogs among our homeless population. Most of the dogs are with people who travel solo. We know of no dogs staying at the river or the tracks.

After a recent sweep, no one is at the tracks, but they are at Steckel Park and the KOA Campground, far from town and services. We are looking for rides to the One Stop on Friday.

SPIRIT OF SANTA PAULA IS A 501-C3 Non-Profit Corp. EIN – 27-0005506

The Goal is to End Homelessness in Santa Paula.

Richard’s Drop In Center Address is 113 N. Mill Street, Santa Paula CA 93060

Open 9 am to 3 pm – Weekdays

Many Meals Address: 121 Davis Street, Santa Paula served

every Wednesday 5 to 6 pm. Dining and Take-out – Food Pantry

One Stop Every Friday from 9 to Noon – Showers, Breakfast, Lunch, Health Care and Services

Mailing Address: Post Office Box 728, Santa Paula CA 93061-0728

Emergency Food Boxes by Appt. Call 805.340.5025 kay@spiritsp.org

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The SPIRIT of Santa Paula Story



‘IF YOU STOP FEEDING THEM, THEY WILL GO AWAY.” The Street Beat in Santa Paula. Week No. 491 on June 27, 2018.


STATS JUST THIS PAST WEEK: Thanks to our volunteers and our supporters, 500 meals were prepared for our guests at Many Meals;  192 families took advantage of our food pantry and USDA food distribution with fresh strawberries, peanut butter, rice, beans, bread, yogurt, orange juice, crackers and green vegetables. This is the hub of weekly connections for own community to receive support in small but meaningful ways.

If I had a nickel every time I head that statement, I could pay the water bill for 100 families. There are many good reasons why we are so keen on serving so much food.

This friend lives on streets in Santa Paula. He is from a family of nine and has a brother also on the streets. He shies away from groups and rarely comes to the Drop In Center.  As a result, he earns his money by dumpster diving–a dangerous and nasty sport. His elbow was invaded by a shard of some kind and became infected in hours. After a trip to the ER, we had to come back in the morning for another examination when the doctor said he needed surgery. He was transported to Ventura County Medical Center and after surgery, was discharged two days later to the street. Within a day, his bandages were dirty.  For those who see us daily, here is why food is basic.

  1. They are healthier
  2. They panhandle less.
  3. They steal less. 
  4. When they feel better, they have more energy.
  5. When they have been fed, they are often more cooperative to get things done.
  6. Like us, they will be healthier when they die.

“Just Walk With Me.”

Today we had a visit from one of our shelter-fragile Cynthia and Maria 6.27.18 walkingguests. She was crying. Apparently her living situation is deteriorating. Someone in the house tried to take her wheelchair away and she was  frightened. She was so upset she couldn’t talk. She came to the Drop In Center after hours for some comfort and said to Maria, “Just walk with me.” They did. We’ll see what to do for her. Sometimes that’s all they need and we know how to do that.

Pragmatic Solutions Welcome Here.

The dialogue about “what we wish for” is passe and has no place in the war against poverty and homelessness. As a professional property manager, I see a new class of homeless as a result of rising rents. A four bedroom home on No. 13th Street in Santa Paula just rented for $2,300.  Already, the tenant can’t make the second month’s installment due to an illness in the family.

The solutions are:  shelter, health care, basic necessities, child care, wider use of existing Section 8 vouchers, education, access to mental health services, stable incomes… to mention just a few. And, we need equity in the application and availability of services.

Great steps are being taken in a variety of areas. SPIRIT of Santa Paula has been approved to participate in the Ventura County HMIS (Homeless Management Information System which creates multiple opportunities to serve our vulnerable populations. Local groups are working towards improving access to services by establishing an “Under One Roof” facility. SPIRIT received a grant from the County’s CDBG funding cycle to do more with our homeless and family support shelters. Dialogue is underway with the City of Santa Paula’s top leadership and the County of Ventura for housing options and programs.

Wednesday is Many Meals — for Anyone.

As always, we anticipate new people with new needs at Many Meals, every Wednesday from 5 to 6 pm. We have seating in the dining room, family style, and take-out for the evening meal and likely the next day. It worries me when I  see a homeless person take  three meals. I always pray it is for someone else and not to be saved til the next day.  Grandmothers and grandkids eat together, spouses come to have a night out with friendly hosts. The address is 121 Davis Street, Santa Paula, hosted by the First Presbyterian Church who also sponsor church at the park on Sundays at 11.

This week’s menu is:  Chicken and angel hair pasta casserole with sesame dressing, fresh tomatoes, olives, celery, onions; fresh strawberries, orange wedges, cooked carrots from Garman’s Pub, rolls and butter.

Some of our best helpers are high school students who show up to help and have fun at the same time.


It can be done.






“Now I lay me down to sleep.” News from the Streets of Santa Paula and a Report from Many Meals for Week 492 on July 4, 2018

This is how they do it. Natalie is sleeping in the park and this is how I found early this past week. She came into the Drop In Center, famished and weary. It has to be a long day for her and sleeping in such an exposed manner is fitful, making for the beginnings of a hard day, every day.

In two cases, they aren’t ready for a sober life. In the other

Natalie sleeping on bench 6.18

case, she needs a variety of help and care. Most of all, she needs gentle words.

She takes everything to heart and doesn’t want to bother anyone.

Gabriel sleeping behind church 6.18

Gabriel is sleeping behind one of our churches on a Saturday afternoon. He was rousted by an officer due to a “No Trespass” sign just above his head.

Jeremias was at the park on Saturday and extremely intoxicated. He thought about going to the Rescue Mission but after a snooze on my office floor, thought better of it.

Jeremias sleeping in office 6.18

Thanks to the regular visits of our mental health and Whole Person Care professionals who visit our streets and follow up at the Drop In Center, many of our homeless people are coming closer to the source of help.

It’s an old adage, but they truly don’t care to help themselves until they feel they are worth it. We believe all things are possible.

Are these things easy? No…. sobriety is very hard work.

We wish to the thank the committee known as Project Hope, chaired by local resident, Pam Marshall and initiated by Council member Martin Hernandez three years ago. The goal was to bring light to the subject of homelessness in Santa Paula. There were 29 committee members and partners who met regularly to learn, express concerns and share ideas about how to end homelessness. Thank you for the hard work and genuine enthusiasm.


“I Lost it” – News from Many Meals Week 490 on June 13, 2018

Heaven promises many joys and benefits. One of them is that we will never lose anything for which we have no need–phone chargers, cars, keys, socks, pills or purses. I learned again today why the problems of homelessness cannot be solved in multiples.

It is common for people to lose the things they need to solve their housing crisis. Most of us have our ID handy, can find our social security card and at least know how to get a copy of our birth certificate in short time if needed.

This is just not so with people who don’t carry a purse, have a file cabinet or a file folder.  Today was such a day.

We are preparing one of our homeless people for subsidized senior housing. It has taken us three weeks to get a birth certificate, the doctor’s certification, her homeless history verified, her ID card and a phone that works more than two days.

Today was the day for the visit to Social Security. I dropped her off at 8:30 with money for bus fare back home and new charger for her phone.  She saw the line and thought not to stay but I told her she had to.  She was back at the office by 10:45. I asked her if she was successful and she admitted she was not because she had forgotten to take a copy of her birth certificate, even though the folder was in her hand and she couldn’t remember what name she had on her last card. She also needed her pain medication which she did not have with her.

We will try again, although not tomorrow. I would like to find someone who take her and stay with her as she works through the steps at the social security office.

Their problems can only be solved one person at a time. That is why the work is so hard and it takes so long. People who have lost their shelter lose their orientation to routine. Few of them know for sure what day it is and time has little meaning. They miss doctor’s appointments, deadlines and court appearances.

When life gets this complicated, I can understand why some self-medicate. Then, they don’t care and it’s just easier to get through today.

An interviewer asked me today what percentage of homeless people don’t want to be housed. My guess is 50%. Those who don’t are what I have described above. Rules worry them because it translates to giving up drugs and alcohol.

The other 50% will do the work to get their housing. The work cannot be done in tandem. It’s one event at a time with focused energy on one person at a time. You have to stay with it and cheer the success, however small.

Back to losing things. One of my favorite people has decided that a sober life is too hard. He has been in detox twice in the last twelve months and came back two weeks ago. He found his friends and started with a few beers. He left his back pack with me when he left and completely forgot about it when he came home. He started gathering his things all over again. They all do. They need new blankets every few days because they are stolen. They need sweaters and jackets because they lay them down somewhere when it’s warm. They lose their ID, their phones get stolen and they all want money for bus fare to go somewhere.

Sadly, critics of homeless people in general tend to generalize that homeless people “like it that way.” They forget to focus on the 50% that long for housing.

Now that law enforcement has cleared the river and the tracks, more of them are in and around town. There is no bus to take them somewhere else and they wouldn’t get on it anyway. Every community has their own homeless population. They don’t want ours and we don’t want theirs.

Ideas are being parlayed about homeless shelters. Funding is one problem but the greater one is location. Savings to taxpayers just from redirecting people from emergency care to primary health care would pay for the building, but there is no will to build one. No one wants it near them, but they are near all of us now.

We helped a woman today pay $400 for her room. We heard her story, the details of which I can hardly remember about her losing her green card and then her ID card and her monthly check was diverted somewhere else because she moved twice in a short time. And, she was about to be homeless. We talked to the landlord and she was actually two months behind but he promised to work with her. We usually never help someone who is that far behind and has no way to pay for the next month’s rent. However, when she is standing in front of you with no hope, there is only one thing to do. She is also a good helper at Many Meals.

In case you are one who thinks the solutions are quick and easy, I urge you to either be patient with those working on the problem or provide the help needed to move it along. I am surprised how many people know someone who is or has been homeless. Those who are homeless from an economic crisis can be helped much faster. Substance abuse creates a barrier  to a quick solution.

Without our partners at Behavioral Health and the Healthcare Agency, we could not look at any success. They are all amazing. We are missing our clinician, Ted Perez. A serious infection put him in the hospital. We need you, Ted.

Lots of food today from our favorite food bank, Food Share and we will be preparing a nice meal as always, thanks to thoughtful and creative. Tomorrow’s menu is ham casserole with olives, tomatoes, onions, celery and dried blueberries with an artichoke sauce; hot buttered carrots thanks to Garman’s Pub, orange slices, green salad with tomatoes and Cesar dressing, rolls and butter.

We put about 30,000 pounds of food back into the community last month, thanks to our School District. We rescued so much food. We will miss them for the summer months.

Thanks to all for the encouraging notes and your willingness to listen to the other side of the story — the human side.

Our Goal:  End Homelessness in Santa Paula  

Kay Wilson-Bolton is the volunteer director of SPIRIT of Santa Paula.  She can be reached at 805.340.5025.

Website is www.spiritofsantapaula.org.

Address is 113 North Mill Street, Santa Paula CA 93060.

Mailing address is: P.O. Box 728, Santa Paula CA 93061-0728

“Serving the least Powerful and Most Vulnerable People in our Community.”

“It Makes Me Want to Drink” – News from Many Meals on June 6, 2018 

Each week I have experiences revealing again that homelessness is not just about vagrants or transients, the new names that further categorize and stigmatize people who are homeless.

She is 74 years old, has an elegant name and dresses like a model. She rents a room with no kitchen privileges so the Drop In Center and Many Meals is a life-line for her during the week. She has lost her upper teeth and is very conscious of her appearance. She came to see me today in tears and told me the person who rents her the room has been mean to her and borderline abusive.  She is afraid of him and he is threatening to kick her out.  She is fearful and confided in me that this circumstance makes her want to go back to drinking.

I think most of us have a trigger of some kind that pushes us to shop, or to that chocolate donut, latte or frozen yogurt when we need something to comfort our wounded spirit or calm a fear. In her case, it’s the bottle and she knows it. She can sense she is moving closer to homelessness and drinking alleviates the fear for a while. I assured her I would be there to help her. She has a permanent disability and just finished a bout with cancer. We started her application for senior housing and will get into the Pathways to Home Program with the County of Ventura. Jennifer Harkey and Jackie Villanueva are case workers and saints in my world.

Jose agreed to go into detox last week. He was there for seven days and looked so good when he came home. But, because he is homeless, he went back to the streets where he quickly found his buddies.  He figured he could have a couple of beers, but it turned into two six packs and it’s all undone.  He had a very responsible job but too much time on his hands, His mother cries and so does he. He is very ashamed of his habit and his weakness.  He was offered a bed at Kephera House, arranged by Tom from the Whole Person Care Program, but decided he was “good” and passed on it.  I’m told your body can reach a point where you can die from one more drink.

The wonderful Shelby Hardy is a caseworker with Whole Person Care. She was successful in helping one of the better known men, who is in clear view of our community every day, enter a rehab program last week. She transported him on a Friday. The program is about 30 days. On Monday, he was back in town because he didn’t like being with drug addicts and being confined. There you have it.  What to do?

I’ve mentioned a woman who lives in a commercial building in town. She’s doing what she needs to do to gather her paperwork for the County’s housing program for disabled seniors who are homeless. Her birth certificate arrived today and we are just waiting for her divorce papers and social security card.  She learned today that it was election day and she cried because she didn’t get to vote.  Clearly being homeless doesn’t mean you stop living. It just means you have to find a way to get through the days, find food and a safe place to sleep.

Her government phone finally died so SPIRIT got her a new one. She needs to stay in touch with all the agencies connected to her search for housing and medical care. The One Stop in Santa Paula has made the difference in her quality of life. While not in the best place, she is not on the street with her little dog. One reason people who are homeless languish in that state is because they change their phone number so often. They lose their phone, it gets stolen, it’s a cheap one and it crashes, or they use up their minutes and have to start over when they have money for more.

It was graduation at one of our elementary schools today, and the son of a woman in our circle received top honors winning a trip tomorrow to a famous place with one other student. This family is homeless but safe in a very marginal living environment. Clearly he does his homework and gets the encouragement and support he needs to make his way.

A counselor in the Fillmore School District called today asking for help for a family with three children. They had to leave their apartment due to flooding while they were at work. They have no family here and no resources of their own. They slept in their car last night and we were asked if we would put them in a hotel for tonight. I learned who the landlord is and called him to suggest he needs to offer them lodging or at least vacate the rent for the days they are out. He was slow to agree to the latter, but he did. He shared the name of the property manager so we will follow up with him to be sure credit is given. If their home can’t be repaired, we will have a serious problem.

So you see, homelessness is not restricted to vagrants and transients. We know that category is the group that makes the mess, creates problems, causes trouble and irritates a community. Many of them want “out” of those circumstances but feel trapped or are enslaved to drugs and alcohol. They aren’t ready to do the hard work and there is no place for them to go.

SPIRIT is reaching out to partners in the housing industry and in the business of social services to act diligently in creating housing opportunities. We will be relentless until it happens.

Meanwhile, we continue to rescue unserved food from the Santa Paula Unified School District providing wonderful quantities of meat, milk, sandwiches, hamburgers, burritos, fruit, etc for use at the Drop In Center. Nothing goes to waste.

We closed the Drop In Center last Friday and served breakfast at the One Stop instead. We had our best day I’m told, about 25 people checked in for medical services and showers. James Boyd is the master of ceremonies there and has the same heart for this work as we do. He agrees that “one at a time” is worth it all.

So, in preparation for the weekly lifeline at Many Meals, we are serving Turkey Pot Pie with vegetables and gravy, mashed potatoes, cooked carrots with orange glaze, orange slices, rolls and butter.  Our cooks are the best and prepare these meals as though for their own families.

I can’t thank them enough, or the members of the Presbyterian Church who allow us to use their wonderful commercial kitchen and facilities.

BTW, once in a while, a reader chides me for grammatical errors. I write this late on Tuesdays and often while a little bleary. I will take a little grace on that if you will.

Our Goal:  End Homelessness in Santa Paula  

Kay Wilson-Bolton is the volunteer director of SPIRIT of Santa Paula.  She can be reached at 805.340.5025.

Website is www.spiritofsantapaula.org.

Address is 113 North Mill Street, Santa Paula CA 93060.

Mailing address is: P.O. Box 728, Santa Paula CA 93061-0728

“Serving the least Powerful and Most Vulnerable People in our Community.”

The Good Neighbor Award 2017

How Many Times Can You Get Arrested? – Week 488 at Many Meals on May 30, 2018

It happened again this weekend. He was belligerent, half-dressed and wandering the streets talking to himself.  He was arrested a week ago.  That makes 15 times since 2015 and many of these were in the last few months. What to do?

The Police can do nothing more until this person is declared “gravely disabled.” It won’t be soon. He is very resourceful, having lived on the streets for several years. His brother is also on the streets, as was a brother before him who died while incarcerated in the Todd Road jail. What is the common thread?

One homeless man in another part of the County visited the ER 152 times last year. One of ours who died in January, was at the Santa Paula hospital ER no less than an estimated 30 times. I took her numerous times and she was transported by medical professionals many more.

A woman in town was arrested today for throwing a rock through a car window.  She’ll be out soon and the cycle begins again. She is homeless half time, coach surfing here and there.

The One Stop is  making such inroads into helping our people who are homeless find their way. The shower is everything to them. Some are lazy however, and come by the Drop In Center for a breakfast snack and then decide to forego the shower because they don’t like to wait in line.

Starting this week, James Boyd from the Whole Person Care program agreed we will close the Drop In Center on Friday mornings and serve a light breakfast at the Church so there is no excuse for missing this important engagement. They can see a doctor, a nurse, get assistance with their MediCal and other benefits including Pathways to Home.

Through that program, four of our people have found rentals; one in Camarillo, one in Ventura and two seniors right here in town. While they prefer to stay in Santa Paula, it’s likely a good idea they relocate so they can make new friends and find new opportunities.

I learned again this weekend what causes homelessness beside alcohol and drug abuse.

A woman with three children had her water turned off because her family stopped making the monthly payments. There is a back story to that, but while the property was posted with a disconnect notice, the water remained on. She thought the bill had been paid. She came in last Friday with a water bill of over $1,000. Someone called CPS and reported her for living in a home with children with no water, making the dwelling uninhabitable.  Thanks to Father Charles at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church, we raised the money to get the water back on.

Another single mother with six children, attending school to become an x-ray technician, couldn’t start her car on Friday. We had it tuned up as someone suggested. $184. No luck. We put in a new starter. $139. No luck. Last night we put in a new battery and still no luck. $179. Someone suggested a new ignition which apparently leads to other things and we realized the 1999 car isn’t worth fixing.  Her children attend school in another city for several reasons and she has to transport them on her way to school/work.

Another woman working closely with the County to get housing discovered yesterday that her “free government phone” died. There go her contacts and her appointments. She has no way of communicating with the outside world that can rescue her.  So we got her a new phone.

The absence of money is one thing; the absence of resources to solve problems is another.  Many Meals continues to be the link to fragile people. A woman came in last week who was so anxious to be around people she almost fainted. Fortunately, Ted Perez from Behavioral Health stopped by after work and recognized what was going on. He reached out to her and was able to make an appointment for this week and they connected again today. She came to our food pantry on Saturday and she called today to see if anyone was able to give her $20 so she could pay someone to bring her into town to get food.

The Bible talks a lot about money and how wonderful it is to give it. It is the love of money that traps us, but I have noticed that many are trapped because of it’s absence and scarcity. One seemingly small event can turn a family upside down and jeopardize their ability to pay rent, leading to eventual homelessness.

We can’t buy batteries for every car or pay everyone’s water bills. It seems we are presented with one or two at a time we can help and with some of the angels who hang out with us, we make a difference.  Susan Kulwiec, Jill Wallerstedt and I are regularly writing grants to find funds we can use to help stabilize our families and be the safety net they need to get through a day.  I just pray their kids grow up to be successful and able to support their parents in later years as a  “thank you” for the hard work done in these.

Our work is more than just with those finding shelter in the streets. It extends to the least powerful and most vulnerable in our community.

I am pleased to report the City Council approved forming an Ad Hoc Committee to study and work on the issues of homelessness. They members are Jenny Crosswhite and John Procter, two fresh faces looking at the problems and opportunities and willing to engage the locals on what is being done and must be done.

There is another side to this work that can hurt. Last week, one of the men who lives on the streets as a result of alcohol addiction, has been asking for another phone. He is one who misses appointments, won’t attend the One Stop, consistently asks for bus fare so he can visit people in Ventura and is taking his medication with alcohol.  He makes promises he doesn’t keep and sleeps at a local church.  He called from the Job and Career Center and challenged me about when I was going to get him his phone. I told him I wanted him to use some of his monthly check to get one. He flared back that “my talk was cheap” and he had no use for me.  I told him “thank you” and hung up. I’ve been thinking about that but know he’ll be calling soon when he needs something. This is the test. Will I be there or not?

As we wait the 5 pm hour on Wednesday to serve our nutritious meal, I can’t wait to see who comes to find us.

Our meal tomorrow  is beef enchilada casserole with rice from El Pescador, cooked carrots from Garman’s Pub, cole slaw with raisins, croissants and orange slices.   Many of our student volunteers have promised to come during the summer. They are the best help.

Thanks for listening.

Our Goal:  End Homelessness in Santa Paula  

Kay Wilson-Bolton is the volunteer director of SPIRIT of Santa Paula.  She can be reached at 805.340.5025.

website is www.spiritofsantapaula.org.

Address is 113 North Mill Street, Santa Paula CA 93060.

Mailing address is: P.O. Box 728, Santa Paula CA 93061-0728

“Serving the least Powerful and Most Vulnerable People in our Community.”

The Good Neighbor Award 2017



Have You Seen Her This Week–Mom Wants to Know.  News and Views from Many Meals – Week 486 on May 9, 2018

After you read through tonight’s report on our work, please take a minute to visit our new website:   www.spiritofsantapaula.org. Thanks to Council member Jenny Crosswhite and her husband, Daniel Sandoval, for the sparkling new look. They are in the business of computer graphics and web design.

In the event you missed 60 Minutes Sunday night and the episode about grandparents raising grandchildren, it is worth a watch.  Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Due to Drug Abuse

This scene plays out regularly at Many Meals at the Drop-In Center when parents call me to ask if we have seen their adult children this week.

I received two such pleas today, one in the form of a text message: (not the daughter’s real name).

“Hi Miss Kay – This is Shannon’s mom. Just wondering how she’s doing and maybe tomorrow or something she can give me a call.  I was just making sure everything’s okay with her, and I want to thank you for always helping her anytime. I’ve always told her when she’s done and had enough of the streets I would openly welcome her and help her but I’ve tried that many many times before and I just have to wait till God makes her ready but thank you.”

Shannon has children who live with the father’s parents. She hasn’t seen them in many months even though they are in Santa Paula.

Thanks to our partners in the Whole Person Care and the entire Ventura County Healthcare and Behavioral Health agencies, we have learned the ropes for resources available to people with mental health challenges caused either by disorders or prolonged substance abuse.  A friend brought me a great article today on a judge in Los Angeles who has established a jogging/running program for homeless people who want to get healthy. Wonderful program but it is a down-the-road result of gathering people who want to change their lives. Until they are ready, there is no motivation to walk to get help, let alone run.

It’s all about, “When they are ready.”  Today was Paul’s day. (Not his real name.) He is a regular at the Drop-in Center and Many Meals, resists all efforts to help, even with a much-needed shower.  However, David caught up with Ted Perez from the local mental health clinic. We have been waiting for this day.  Here is the report:

“Paul was waiting for me this am. He was hungry and asked if I had any protein bars. I invited him up to give him some. He then asked for help with SSI. He then said, “I know I need to see a doctor, can you help me?”  I told him I could.  He will get his SSI papers so I can help him. Will talk to boss on how to fast track him.”

There are so many success stories. I know there are not enough to make the community understand what a slow process. What I hear from people is, “Get them out of here.” The question is, “Where?” Every city has enough of their own and they don’t want ours.

This may sound like the sharing of confidential information, but Paul is my client too and we work as a team to reach him and serve him.

There is a stronghold of people who live in the River because they want to be away from town to do their thing. They stick together and protect each other. That group has no affinity with the group that lives at the tracks. It’s a challenge to break into these strongholds. We have to drawn them in to us.

SPIRIT of Santa Paula was funded today to install trash bins near both places. One person at each spot will be paid to fill the bins each week in an effort to clear the trash and debris.  Porta-potties can be stationed nearby if there is no objection from neighbors.

There will come a day when their condition will be so bad they will reach for help. We and our partners will be there.

The mental health issue has to be addressed with some of them. One woman in particular is living behind a building on Main Street. I was able to get her to One Stop last Friday for a shower and registration into the Homeless Management Information System. She was back in her spot, now very nasty from using it and her small mattress as a bathroom, talking about her 38 mothers and fathers who are in heaven but some of them are still looking for her. She can be arrested on a 5150 hold if she is a danger to herself or to others. If not, without new legislation to hold someone up to a month, the courts will be required to let her go. She cannot be held against her will. It’s a terrible dilemma. The horns of that dilemma are the limitations on the police, the unfair impact on the shopkeeper and the rights of an individual to be homeless.

The Gravely Disabled Bill in the Legislature AB 2156

SPIRIT board hopes to initiate a public forum in each of our supervisorial districts to let the public know what is being done, what can be done, and what opportunities exists for resolution of the homeless issue.  The County’s CEO staff is considering options for such presentations.

I would like you to meet long-time founding board member, W. John Kulwiec. The early conversations about SPIRIT and a role for our good intentions began in his home back in the year 2000.

John serves as Treasurer and provides very experienced leadership in the non-profit arena. He has served many years on the Boys and Girls Club board and has been active in many local organizations, including service on the Santa Paula Planning Commission. He is the founder of Kulwiec Group Architects and is married to Susan Kulwiec, Interior Designer. Susan is serving the SPIRIT board as Director of Development. John has a long career in architectural practices and is formerly a licensed contractor. He served in the US Air Force Civil Engineering Department and he is an expert witness in forensic architecture. John has a Bachelor of Architecture from Illinois Institute of Technology in Chicago with a major in Architecture and a minor in City Planning. He is a longtime resident of Santa Paula and been a champion of many local causes including the effort to end homelessness here.

Thanks again to Food Share, we have lots of fresh vegetables for tomorrow’s pantry.  Our menu is Turkey Pot Pie with mashed potatoes, fresh cooked carrots, cole slaw, grapes,  butter and rolls and orange slices.

Next week’s profile is on our board President, David Bavero.

Our Goal:  End Homelessness in Santa Paula  

Kay Wilson-Bolton is the volunteer director of SPIRIT of Santa Paula.  She can be reached at 805.340.5025.


Website is www.spiritofsantapaula.org.

Address is 113 North Mill Street, Santa Paula CA 93060.

Mailing address is: P.O. Box 728, Santa Paula CA 93061-0728

“Serving the least Powerful and Most Vulnerable People in our Community.”

The Good Neighbor Award 2017