Good News for Noe and Rocco – Week 484 on May 2, 2018

Today was a good news day but, as always, filled with contrasts.  Noe wanted in the worst way to have a magic wand waved over his love of alcohol but the best we could do is encourage him to get the kind of help that will last and that he can manage. Gloria Lozano from the RISE Team at Behavioral Health and Tom Boscarelli did not give up and were on call when Noe was ready. We knew he would and we knew they would.

Noe (on the right) presented himself at 8 am this morning and waited until 10 for Gloria to transport him to SP Hospital for clearance and then on to Kephera House in Ventura.  Please pay for Noe. The work of sobriety is hard and withdrawals are painful. Unfortunately, the best way to instantly feel better is another beer and that cycle has to be broken. Pray for him to have courage, comfort and confidence in his future.

Further, pray for housing. If he comes out and is back on the streets, he is almost doomed.   Others in the photo are Maria Sanchez who hosts the Drop In Center and helper, Larry Hicks, a member of the Behavioral Health Advisory Board.

The other good news is that Rocco is back home. Some of you know that SPIRIT of Santa Paula touches a lot of people in various ways. A few months ago, an attorney from the Public Defender’s office asked to me help with a family with six young children in great need of shepherding. Without going into detail, it has been one of the most challenging tasks. My Chaplain friend, Pam Scott, and I started with visits to the home.  Mom was working but their resources are limited. The family’s challenges have ranged from flat tires on the freeway at midnight to utility disconnections, illness, leaking radiator, legal disputes with the father, court appearances and then the dog was picked up by Animal Control last week for no tags and no rabies shots.

Thanks to SPARC, they were holding Rocco until the family could raise enough money to bring him home. The children were depressed and feeling another loss. This morning about 6:45, the youngest daughter called me and asked me to help with Rocco so she could get “happy again.” The mother called around 10 am to tell me she leaned her daughter had called and tried to apologize.

We called SPARC, provided a credit card and Rocco went home with tags and his vaccinations.  As a young one, I remember our family having similar needs but there was no one to call. So, everyone is happy again. This is Rocco, waiting for someone to come.

Our new website will be launched this week. Our favorite pastor, Jenny Crosswhite, is quite the graphic artist and her husband, Daniel Sandoval, is quite the computer geek. They have been just the combination to put our new presentation together.

Our opening pages reveal the happy faces of our amazing cooks and the launch day of our Shower Pods provided by the Ventura County Healthcare Agency.

Next week, we will introduce you to our board members. We will begin with Dr. Bill Simmons, our own Futurist. His role is to challenge us to think about our work in today’s environment with a look to the future and what we can accomplish for God’s Kingdom here and now. I can hardly think beyond today. We need someone like Bill.

Tomorrow’s menu is turkey and Swiss cheese  with tomato with a curry flavored dressing on a croissant roll, Spanish rice from El Pescador, hot buttered carrots, cole slaw with raisins, and Pixie Tangerines. Thank you Mike Shore and Food Forward.

 Our Goal:  End Homelessness in Santa Paula  

Kay Wilson-Bolton is the volunteer director of SPIRIT of Santa Paula.  She can be reached at 805.340.5025.

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Website is www.spiritofsantapaula.org.

Address is 113 North Mill Street, Santa Paula CA 93060.

Mailing address is: P.O. Box 728, Santa Paula CA 93061-0728

“Serving the least Powerful and Most Vulnerable People in our Community.”

 

The Good Neighbor Award 2017

 

Remember – They are People Who Are Homeless: Week 479 on March 28, 2018.

I “went to school” this past week at the emergency shelter for our people who are homeless. What I learned is that I must cease referring to them as “homeless people”, as my friend Jane Lax, once reminded me.

They are “people who are homeless” because they are as unique as any one of us who is not. Therefore, they must be treated one at a time. No one great plan will work for all of them, and likely even most of them.

Most of my unsheltered friends either long to have a pet or have one. Those who have pets, usually dogs, will make sure the animal is warm and eats before they do.

Thanks to our Santa Paula City Council members, City Manager, Michael Rock, and Community Services Director, Ed Mount, we were able to host an emergency shelter for those who are homeless during the storm last week in the Cultural Arts Building behind the Community Center. We served a total of 42 unduplicated people.  Many thanks to my volunteers Howard Stephen, Luis Cantero, Maria Sanchez and Bessie Crowell. We know how to sleep with one eye open.

One of the guests at the shelter had a little dog with kennel cough. I’ll call the owner Chris to avoid using real names and identifying male or female.

The dog coughed all day and all night and the owner stayed awake most of the night on a phone that didn’t work.  And, there was constant chatter between the Chris and another guest. Chris had been in the hospital for several days, and the dog was fostered by a kind person who even offered to provide a surgical procedure on a tumor on the dog’s leg. The owner refused the surgery and felt the dog would get better on his own.  On Friday, my Howard took the owner and the dog to our vet who prescribed an inexpensive, over the counter medicine for the cough.

We closed the shelter on Friday and didn’t see Chris again until Monday at the drop in center. The dog was much worse. I asked if the dog had been receiving the recommendation and was told that taking care of the dog was her business, not mine.

I went back to the vet’s office and got the Amoxicillin, a common antibiotic and took it back to Chris who refused to administer it. The dog was in great distress and coughing constantly. We had serious words about neglect, duty and cruelty. I told Chris if the dog was not treated, I would report the situation to Animal Control. Chris left the office in a fit of bad language. I went to SPARC (our no-kill shelter) to get some advice and Donovan, the Animal Control Officer, happened to be there. He had received my message and knew who I was referring to. Chris had been at SPARC before and caused a scene there over the dog’s care. He stated he could issue a citation for neglect — if he finds them.

I know not where they are tonight. I don’t know how long the dog can survive in that condition. It is very disheartening to know that Chris has the medicine needed to provide the cure and out of stubbornness is withholding it.

This is an example of someone not thinking normally, and while I would not casually use the term mental illness, the behavior is characteristic of someone who suffers from it. I don’t know what it will take to reach Chris to provoke care for this animal. Chris has been on the street for a year, extremely thin, but has not seen before now. So, what plan?

Remember the Michael of last week’s email, who I found on the street and gave him $10 to come in out of rain? He settled down on a cot reading a book on witchcraft. After lights were out he began talking to someone and after repeated and polite requests to go to sleep and be quiet, he got mad and left. His behavior was alarming me a little, so I called the police and asked them to come by. They saw him leaving the building on their approach and had a chance to talk to him. Michael lives on the very east end of town and known to the police. He is a loner, does not like to be around people and is very easily agitated. When he is confronted, he becomes very combative.

I realized I compelled him to come into an environment in which is not comfortable and his subsequent behavior, common for him but a mystery to us, made all of us wary of possibilities.

He is another example of being a person who is homeless and not part of the homeless population. Therefore, needs to be treated as unique and as an individual.

The lesson for me is that I need to see them as individuals and not as a group of people with similarities other than they don’t have a home.  When I do that better, I can help him or her much better and they may get ready to live the life God designed for them.  I’m sure we can all agree that no one is ever sentenced to a life on the streets. The right resources are there. We just need to make the connection.

The clinicians and social workers and administrative staff at Ventura County Health Care Agency are so amazing. They are “The Connection” and they are here in town every Friday doing just that at El Buen Pastor Church, 1029 E. Santa Paula Street.

Shea from Tisa’s Salon was at One Stop last Friday giving haircuts to any and all.  The visiting number was the highest at 22 last week and because many were at the shelter, we were able to shuttle them to One Stop. Now, I think we need a 12-passenger van to shuttle regular. They can’t be helped if transportation is a barrier.

My friends and SPIRIT board members, John and Susan Kulwiec, have taken on the role of grant exploration to see what is out there in the way of funding. Jill Wallerstedt was instrument in completing our Community Development Block Grant application with the County of Ventura.

What I also long for is a storage unit where we could house supplies and household items donated to us.  Largely so I can clear my office but so we know where everything is. Any ideas are welcome.

My Realtor® colleague, Karen Campbell, picked up0 and delivered the most amazing array of mangos, Kiwi, bell peppers and vegetables from Food Forward in Simi Valley today. What a pantry it will be.

Dinner tomorrow is mashed potatoes, shepherd’s pie with carrots from Garman’s Pub, peas, celery, green bell pepper, onions and corn, fresh strawberries, salad rolls and butter.   Last week the rain stopped during Many Meals. We only planned for 300 but ended up making about 100 more meals.

Our Goal:  End Homelessness in Santa Paula  

Kay Wilson-Bolton is the volunteer director of SPIRIT of Santa Paula.  She can be reached at 805.340.5025.

website is http://www.spiritofsantapaula.org.  Address is 113 North Mill Street, Santa Paula CA 93060. Mailing address is: P.O. Box 728, Santa Paula CA 93061-0728

“Serving the least Powerful and Most Vulnerable People in our Community.”

The Good Neighbor Award 2017